Thursday, April 26, 2012

Happy Living


Daily life can be made happier. It is a matter of choice. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy. It is true, we meet all kinds of situations during the day, and some of them may not be conductive to happiness. We can choose to keep thinking about the unhappy events, and we can choose to refuse to think about them, and instead, relish the happy moments. All of us constantly go through various situations and circumstances, but we do not have to let them influence our reactions and feelings. If we let outer events influence our moods, we become their slaves. We lose our freedom. We let our happiness be determined by outer forces. On the other hand, we can free ourselves from outer influences. We can choose to be happy, and we can do a lot to add happiness to our lives.
                                             
What is happiness? It is a feeling of inner peace and satisfaction. It is usually experienced when there are no worries, fears or obsessing thoughts, and this usually happens, when we do something we love to do or when we get, win, gain or achieve something that we value. It seems to be the outcome of positive events, but it actually comes from the inside, triggered by outer events.
                                            
For most people, happiness seems fleeting and temporary, because they allow external circumstances to affect it. Best way to keep it is by always looking at what you have done and not at what you 
 haven't, associate with Happy people, try to make others happy and Lastly Smile more often.







@Sandy...................

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

26 Things............

26 Things that I would do for You my Love........
1. Know how to make you smile when you are down .
2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.
3. Stick up for you, but still respect your independence.
4. Give you the remote control during the game.
5. Come up behind you and put my arms around you.
6. Play with your hair .
7. My hands always find yours.
8. Be cute when I really want something.
9. Message u a lot.
10. Dance with you, even if I feel like a dork.
11. Never run out of love.
12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.
13. Realize about being funny when I need to be serious.
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
16. Smile a lot.
17. Plan a romantic date full of cheesy things I wouldn’t normally like to do, just because I know it means a lot to you.
18. Appreciate you.
19. Help others out.
20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.
21. Always give you a peck on the cheek when you depart from my company, even when my friends are watching.
22. Sing, even if I can’t.
23. Have a creative sense of humor.
24. Stare at you.
25. Call for no reason.
26. Quit smoking, chewing, or drinking – just because I love u that much to quit it.

There can be a lot of things but these are just random scribbling from deep core of my heart for my would be.
and Last but not the Least...........   

Nothings Gonna Change my Love for You......

@Sandy............

Monday, April 23, 2012

I Think.....

Move In Close, With My Hands On Her Waist
I Take It Slow, No Rush, No Haste
The Rain Slowly Falls And The Full Moon Shines
She Slides Her Arms Around My Neck, And Says Your Mine
The Rain Picks Up And It Soaks Our Hair
But Our Eyes Are Focused, We Have No Cares
I Whisper In Her Ear, I Love You My Dear
You Will Always Be Smiling, You Have No Use For Tears

I think I miss you ...I guess I can't really tell....But as long as your happy....I guess all is well...
I smile everyday....But yet I feel empty......
The pain in relationships Is so hard to bare....But being alone....Just doesn't seem fair...
I think ......I love you still........

@Sandy.................

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

YOU...........

No matter how far YOU are, no matter how long I'm gone, YOU will always be with me. I will see YOU always as clear as day, for my love knows no boundaries and never will, because YOU see... our hearts are one, and mine is always home.

Why I wanna be with YOU all my life, I don’t know. What I know is that... I care for YOU, I really do, I want to lay in YOUr arms, I want to take my last breath holding YOU.

I know YOU've been busy, I had things to do too. We haven't talked for some time, I wonder if everything's fine. I had other stuff on my mind, I'm sure YOU did too, but I just had to tell YOU this my Love... I miss YOU......
I wish that YOU were here or that I were there, or that we were together anywhere!

Today was just one of those days where everything I did reminded me of YOU and every song I heard somehow related to YOU. I hate days like today, because they remind me of the one thing I don’t have......YOU

@Sandy...........

Love issssss........

Love is blind ,
Love is eyed ,
Love is sweet,
Love is bitter,
Love is care,
Love is hesitation,
Love is bare,
Love is dare,
Love is peace,
Love is violent,
Love is clear,
Love is dirty,
Love is prominent,
Love is contaminate,
Love is heaven,
Love is hell,
Love is crashing,
Love is sticky,
Love is critical,
Love is mythological,
Love is brittle,
Love is malleable,
Love is capable,
Love is stressful,
Love is innocent,Love is violent,
Love is best,
Love is worst,
Love is nothing........

But Love is everything,

Love is god,
Love is devil,
Love is evil,
Love is shining sun,
Love is blinking moon,
Love is beautiful earth,
Love is the worst larva of earth,
Love is hurting,
Love is paining,

But Love is lovable and Love is pain killer,

Love is like this,
Love is like that,
Love is too much,
I cannot describe,




Look inside dear reader,
You will find love everywhere hidden but prominent when looks closer,

Love is not enough to understand but for me it’s L….O….V….E….
I Love the Love but Love doesn't Love me.........



@Sandy..............

Monday, April 16, 2012

Happy Birthday To Me :D


Yeah, today is my Birthday. I thought to write a post wishing myself, hehe.
So,  Happy Birthday to Me.

On this B’day of mine I would like to say with my fellow bloggers that “You were born with the ability to change someone’s Life, Don’t waste it”. Think about it.

It always feels good to know that somebody is Happy just because of you, one should not let other hurt be it friends, family, acquaintances or any random person we meet in this beautiful journey called Life.
Cheers.

@Sandy……………..

Friday, April 13, 2012

Love........Says.....

Love doesn't ask, "Who are you!!" 
Love only says, "You are mine!!" 

Love doesn't ask, "Where are you from!!"
Love only says, "You live in my heart!!"

Love doesn't ask, "What do you do!!"
Love only says, "You make my heart to beat!!"

Love doesn't ask, "Why are you far away!!"
Love only says, "You are always with me!!"

@Sandy..........

SOMEONE......

Having SOMEONE To
Sit Beside You Is
NICE.


Having SOMEONE To Wipe
Your Tears Away Is
GREAT.


Having SOMEONE To Hug

You To Sleep At Night Is      WONDERFUL.


But Trust Me,
Being That S0ME0NE
To SOMEBODY Feels Even
BETTER . . .




@Sandy.............

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Sometimes.........

Sometimes when m thinking about you.... 
My eyes get filled with Tears...
But suddenly your another memory touches my Heart....
And I start smiling with Tear Eyes





Sometimes I think if God gives me 24 hours before I die.

Then I will spend 23 hours with You.
Loving you and caring for you.
In the Last hour I will find Someone,
Who can take care Of You after Me


When I miss you, 
Sometimes I listen to music or look at pictures of you,
Not to remind me of you but to make me feel as if I'm with you. 
It makes me forget the distance and capture you.....


@Sandy............

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

I........You

I loved you then as I love you now.
I love you now as I always will.
I wanted you then as I want you now.
I want you now as I always will.
I wanted you happy then as I do now.
I want you happy now as I always will.
I had you then, as I don't have you now.

I don't have you now, but hope says someday I will....
You are always in my mind, I see you in my eyes, Want to tell you, my heart belongs to you. Love You!
YOUR'E my drug and im addicted !!
You can count on the sun to rise, for the stars to come out at night, as long as there's air to breathe, you'll always be loved by me.




"If my heart had wings I would fly to you and lie beside you as you dream...."

@Sandy.............

Friday, April 6, 2012

Present Day.........

Another Excerpt from my Novel........


Date: 03/04/2012
Place: Pune

Today, I’m sitting here in my office working as a Software Test Engineer from past 8 months. Whenever I tell anyone about me being a part of IT industry, everybody seems to feel delighted and I often hear people saying “Man, few years later u’ll earn in dollars.” I have got no option but to smile, a smile which m wearing from past 4 years just to hide my pain and loneliness.
After my break- up have been continuously striving to be a better human being. I have got no feelings like hatred, anger, sadness etc. left in me, just believe in spreading Love and Happiness with my nature and deeds. My friends often ask me “Sandeep, why r u so damm good yaar.” I just reply “I’m like this buddy.”
Whenever I see a couple fighting for no reason and trying to break-up with each other, I try and convince both of them, how it pains after that, if you are in a relation try and work out things, there's always a way out, break-up is not an option buddy. At times m able to convince but few don’t understand ultimately one or the other feels the same I went through.

The main reason behind writing this Novel is a Girl. A Girl whom I once Loved like anything and more than anyone in dis whole world. I wanted to share d story because its been almost 4 years and m still trying to cope up with the Pain. You know what, Pain-- is increasing day by day instead of slowing down and disappearing. I read somewhere that the best way to forget a gal (Love) is to turn her into a literature.....I ask myself a question very frequently, Is It true?? Let’s c.

Before “Chayya”, I didn’t know about this beautiful feeling of the world i.e. LOVE. Chayya taught me what is Love, my friends often ask me to curse her or abuse her if not in front of her, do it when you r sitting alone in any place. But you know what, the moment I open my mouth, first sentence which comes out of my mouth is “I still Love you Chayya, wish we could be together”.

When people ask me about my time spent with ‘Chayya’, I say “I have had the time of my Life with her.”(Couldn’t find better words to describe her)

Few days back I started liking a girl, we used to talk a lot even during nights. But when I proposed her, she rejected it. But this time I didn’t feel like anything happened, I was able to forget what happened the other night and move on. But why am not able to forget Chayya, have I loved her so much that it’s like impossible for me to erase her from my memory. I always keep her album with me in the luggage which I carry while travelling or even my office bag.

I remember staying in Noida for around 2 year alone in a flat, but that turned out to be a nightmare for me. Living alone was not a good idea for me, though I used to spend most of the time in office so that I just go to bed after reaching home but my bad, I couldn’t sleep, her memories kept me awake from one night to other. I spent few nights sitting in my balcony, smoking cigarette from one packet to another, at times I used to cry also lying on my bed for hours, or sitting infront of idol of God (though I don’t believe in this thing anymore) asking him to reduce the pain with my hands folded and pleading “Please God, I can’t take it anymore, stop it, I would do anything, but please help me”. Just to fight with this I started working in night shifts, though my office hours were from 16:00 pm to 02:30 am but I used to sit in office till morning around 06:00 am, just to avoid my loneliness and when I reach home, m so damm tired that I immediately go to bed, Best part was I was paid extra for showing more productivity but bad was that my health deteriorated rapidly. When my mom visited Noida, she asked not to work and stay in Noida anymore. And after fighting with myself for around 2 years I left, the city.

In order to find peace of mind, travelled to several places across India, Hyderabad, Mumbai, Bangalore, Chennai, around 6 months away from Home, and finally ended up in Pune, reason being that I have got my best buddies over here. During my travel I have seen and met a lot of people (guess would be able to write about my journey one day, it’s really worth it), laughing at nothing, fighting for no reason, crying for silly things, few helping needy ones, and after watching all this a smile came onto my face automatically and my heart felt it in a different way, a smile that told me different kind of people take various ways to express their emotions, a smile that told me whatever might be the reason they just try to be happy in their own way, and after watching all this my heart felt so calm and relaxed.

Now here in Pune, I keep myself very busy that I don’t have even time for myself, even on weekends I visit any of my friend’s house. But the problem is am still not able to sleep, I have learned to live my life like this, it doesn’t mean that m frustrated or depressed and one day I would end up committing suicide,( no way, that’s not gonna happen) but yeah am angry, angry from a very Long time.

I have read around 200 Love stories in the past 4 years and have seen more than 70 Romantic movies few with Happy endings and few with Sad, every single Novel I read and movie I saw , made me realise that am not the only one who suffers from pain. It’s happens, what matters is how you take it, there is no point regretting and ending your Life for the person who left you in the middle when you needed him/her the most.
People now know me for spreading happiness, be it at office, old friends or any random I meet, I laugh a lot and make other do with my nuisance and stupid talks, by creating funny faces, pulling others leg, cracking jokes. But nobody knows that “Person who always tries to make other’s smile is always Lonely from his heart.


We are the sum of all the moments of our lives.....and anybody who sits down to write will use the clay of their own Life.
I guess have used enough clay to tell you my story. My journey of Life continues………………..

Lastly, there was and would always be one dream in my eyes about being Chayya and Me together. If not possible in this Life Time, but I want her in every other, whenever I take birth in human form.

Sometimes, Memories are the reason why one can’t move on….

@Sandy..........

Thursday, April 5, 2012

I Will.........

I have a heart that is true
It was given to me for you;
So care for it just like what I do
For it is mine and all for you.


When I go to heaven and you're not there
I'll wait for you at the golden stair;
But if you're not there on judgment day
I know you have gone the other way.


I will return my angel wings
My golden lyre and everything;
To prove to you my love is true
I'll go to hell to be with you.


@Sandy.........

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

A small conversation


Girl: Why are you smiling?
Boy: Nothing..I just realized my love is happy...

Girl: Really! That’s really great!!
Boy: yes it is. For her one smile I Gave this life...

Girl: What are you talking about!!
... Boy: Yes she is so happy now coz I left my life saving
the person she loves...

Girl: Are you crazy! You gave your life for the one who
never loved you!!
Boy: She never realized how much she meant to me...
But her every smile meant everything to me...
I have no regret over the fact that I still love her...

Girl: Why did you Love someone so much who never cared??
Boy: What else I could do!!
It seemed better to me to fetch a smile forever
in your face than being "Just A friend" for you...

Girl: Did you love me that much!!
Then why did you left me!! <Crying>
Boy: Coz I was walking away but you never cared to stop me...
But don't worry every night Just this way I'll come
in your dreams. Coz this is the only place I got you as mine...
---------WITHOUT YOU----------------
------------M NOTHING----------------

@Sandy...........

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Chayya Jaiswal

No, No, it’s not the name of any girl in my Life. Please don’t get it wrong. This would be the name of my Love, which I would be using in my Novel as can’t use her real name. I accept that she is not with me anymore but that doesn’t mean that I could spoil her name by writing on any blog or publicly. No one except my college friends (that too close ones) and me knows her real name.

Few days back I was really confused about which name to use, I asked sweets and then she suggested me to use this one. At first she asked me to use “Jasmine”, I couldn’t help smiling and replied “You behaving as if m Aladdin, suggest something sweet and sexy”, then she came up with this one “Chayya Jaiswal”. I liked it, it’s a nice name.
Finally my sweets got a name in the novel: Chayya Jaiswal.

Disclaimer: The name I used above is fictional and I chose it randomly, any resemblance to real girl is purely co-incidental.

@Sandy.........

Monday, April 2, 2012

And I can't stop Loving You....


Why do I Love you,Why do I want you…?
You have always lived in my heart…
Then why did I let you go….

Why do I still care for you…?
Why do I still wait for you…?
When I know, you will never come back…
Why do I think of you…?

May be I should think you weren’t mine ever…
My life is just wasted and it’s all true…
Wondering why I exist…
Why does my heart beat…?
When I had lost my sweetheart that was…
More important that this bloody heart…

Why I’m ready to die for you..?
Why I’m ready to fly for you..?
When I know I can’t do that…
Still I wish I had done something for you…

Why do I Love you, why do I want you…?
You have always lived in my heart…
Then why did I let you go….
Now being single, I think….
Why Did I let you go…?

@Sandy..........

Past Few Days

Yeah for the past few days I was a bit happy reason being sweets started talking to me again and added me on FaceBook, thought atleast would be able to see her again from time to time, not in real but through her updates on FB. This gave me courage to finish my novel ASAP, bcoz some1 is waiting eagerly for it to be published. I even asked about the name of Character which I wud be using instead of her real name, she told me “Chayya Jaiswal”, I liked it.

But today morning, after coming to office, when I logged into my account was shocked to see that m no longer in her friends list. My heart started sinking and for a moment I was just staring at my computer, couldn’t type a single word for that very moment. I came back to senses when my colleague called for about 2-3 times, “Sandeep, Sandeep, Sandy, where r u Lost…”, “aahhh, what, nothing, nothing”.

May be I should accept the fact that getting hurt is written in my Life, I can’t be Happy or even pretend to be, for long.

You guys might be feeling how does it matter whether m in her FB account or not, but it was the only way I could see her, after she added me on FB, I saw each snap, every album several times. But now what, I guess nothing, m adapted and familiar to this situation. Damm, this Pain, I hate this feeling in me.

I always felt Complete when U are with Me,
My Smile was Rocking;
When U were in front of Me,
My Eyes Twinkled whenever I See U...
My Hearts Skips some Times,
or Beats too much faster whenever I think of U,
But I'm Missing all these.., These Days.. :(
I'm feeling very Lonely
and Lost without U My Love



@Sandy……………