Friday, December 30, 2011

Year End Greetings......

Year End Greetings for my readers :

if it didn’t Bring you Joy,
Just Leave it Behind.

Let’s Ring in the New Year
With Good Things in Mind.

Let Every Bad Memory Go
That Brought Heartache and Pain.

And let’s Turn a New Leaf
With the Smell of New Rain.

Let’s Forget Past Mistakes
Making Amends for This Year.

Happy New Year-2012!


@Sandy...........

Friday, December 16, 2011

1 Choti c Love Story.....

(Read Somewhere and couldn't help from posting on my Blog.)

Boy and a Girl Loved Each Other Very Much.
Unfortunately the Girl Died..:(

Boy was Upset so Much;
& He Couldn't Stop his Tears.
He Kept on Crying Day & Night..:'(

Many People Gave Sympathy,
But No Argument Could Stop His Tears.

One Night He Slept and had a Dream;
He Saw the Girl in Heaven with So Many Girls of Her age.
He Felt Relax..

But He Noticed that Every Girl was in Fairy Dress;
& had a Lightened Candle in their Hands,
but his GF had a Candle which was not Lightened..!

He asked Her:
"Y Yewr Candle is not Lightened?"

She said:

"Whenever I Enlighten My Candle;
Yewr Tears fall on it..
Please Stop Crying ♥

@Sandy...........

Save A Girl Child....

Diary Of A Baby


(In India there places where people still don't feel good when a girl takes birth in there house,so this message is for them.)


15th jun :- I got attached with ovary
17th jun :- I’m a tissue now
30 Jun :- Mom said to dad, “ You’re going to be a father”
MOM AND DAD ARE VERY HAPPY
15th Sept :- I Can feel my heartbeat
14oct :- I have Little hands, legs head and a stomach.
13Nov :- Today i was in a Ultra scan
WOW ! I m a girl
14Nov : I was DEAD!
My mom and dad Killed me.
WHY?
Is it just Because I was a girl?
People love to have a Mother , AWife, and of course a girlfriend too
Then why not a daughter !!!

If u're Human then please pass this message via every means be it SMS or Mail or anything.......but please do....

"Save A Girl Child..."

@Sandy.......

One Extra Bedroom......

A Short Story ::::::

As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true.

Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.


My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.


I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange

rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.

Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.


In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA.


My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing.


After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us

by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.

Every year I decide to go to India… But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India ... The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.


After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down. I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA...


My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India... My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.


Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to India.... I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.


Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.


Sometimes


I wondered was it worth all this?


My father, even after staying in India,


Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.


I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.


Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing. This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.


Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbours again who will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.


But the question

Still remains 'was all this worth it?'

I am still searching for an answer.................!!!


START THINKING


IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???


LIFE IS BEYOND THIS …..DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE ……..

START LIVING IT …….


LIVE IT AS YOU WANT IT TO BE …… 


@Sandy......... 

Sunday, December 11, 2011

11th December......


Many Many Happy Returns Of The Day Sweets, Bless You.
I wish that you get all that you wish for and deserve in this beautiful journey called LIFE.


u knw its been now 3 yrs,bt I dun have any answer why the hell I wanna wish u on ur b'day,why I juz wanna hear ur voice.
People juz keep an affair and forget then why m not able to do the same way, why m I being punished to go through the pain.
I didnt hurt anyone, I didnt do anything wrong with anyone, always try to keep everyone happy and smiling then why m still going through the unbearable Pain.


The only best thing that happened today is that I sent her a sms and she replied as "Thank You".It was juz a thank u message but I kept reading it for hours.
I always pick up a call from an unknown number,its been 3 years bt the vision of Sweets calling me will stay with me forever.


Sweets and I had the perfect Life together with more Love than a lot of people know in a Life Time and then She went away,forever.
She saved my Life,She taught me everything about Life,Hope and a long journey ahead,I always miss her,but Love is Like a wind,I can't see it but I can feel it.I will always remember and cherish the moments spent with her.


She Left me.... I said to myself.... "Who cares?"..
My heart said..... "You do....! stupid!"


@Sandy................

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Attitude...........

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.

@Sandy...............
 

Monday, December 5, 2011

50th Post......

I've been walked on, used and forgotten but I don't regret one moment of it because in those moments, I've learned a lot. I've learned who I can trust and can't. I've learned the meaning of friendship. I've learned how to tell when people are lying and when they're sincere. I've learned how to be a teenager, and how to grow up when I need to... I've been to hell and back a few times, and I won't ever take what I have for granted. This is life, live it one day at a time. You never know how many days you've got left. Stay happy, smile as much as you can......
@Sandy..............