6th Month Anniversary

No, No it’s not what you guys might be thinking, m still single yaar… J

Its 28^th July, 2012, read below to know what’s so special about this date.

This post is about the one and only Abhishek Dubey and Riddhi Mishra.

First of all let me congratulate to my favorites and of course Best Friend Abhishek and Riddhi on completing 6 months of their ‘Saga of Love’ ….. J

I feel the key to a successful relation is to marry the right match and work towards making it possible! And Trust me both Shivam (you might be familiar with this name from my previous article “Abhishek Dubey”) and Riddhi have worked hard to make their dream come true, and I personally address them as “World’s Best Couple” (No offence for others), everyone is best in their own way but I have known Shivam and Riddhi from past 8 years and have seen about taking every single step to make their Dream come true of being together, that’s why I consider them as “The Best” and I’m proud of it.

Now let me try to sum up in brief past 6^th months of their marriage.

It was in the month of February when they both returned to Pune after spending a gala time at Mauritius. I was as usual sitting in my room watching movie, when suddenly my mobile screen flashed ‘Calling Rids.Bebo.Pune (Riddhi)’. I received the call and was so happy to hear her voice after a gap of 2.5 months.

Riddhi: Hi Sandeep Singh, where r u?

Me: Hi Riddhi, how r u and m watching movie in my room?

Riddhi: m good Sandeep, let’s meet at ‘Dange Chowk (a place near my room)’.

Me: so u guys back in town?

Riddhi: Yups, meet us in 5 minutes.

Me: Okz.

After that I went to their elder brother’s, Akshay Bhaiya, house and spending few hours with my Best friends I came back to my room at around 2:30 am.

So, this is how I first met with them after a long gap.

And till date I have been with them every time, they made me feel comfortable like a family member and I’m proud about being friends with them. I never felt that I’m only their friend neither from Shivam nor from Riddhi. We used to hang out together every time be it shopping, dinner, drives, or at their house. If ever I meet God, would personally thank him for blessing me with two very best persons in this beautiful journey called Life (Stop it Sandeep you are not here to talk about your friendship buddy. Oh yes, sorry I got carried away, hehe)

Whenever the couple upload their pic on Facebook, they both get compliments like ‘Made for each other’, ‘Ek duje k liye’, ‘World’s Best Couple’, ‘Lovely Couple’ etc. etc. and ‘Likes’ around 50-60.

So now you can know how much people love them.

After getting married to each other their Love has flourished and bonding between them has increased day by day.

You know what only getting married with someone doesn’t guarantee a successful relationship but it takes Love, Respect, Care, Loyalty, Honesty, and being with & for each other every time. This is what Shivam and Riddhi are known for. Whenever I see them there is only one thing in my mind ‘The Perfect example of Love’.

Well, well, well, let me stop now, else I would keep on writing about them and trust me I have to remind myself that ‘Sandeep, you are sitting in your office and have got work to do, hehe’

Lastly let me quote down few Lines which I had written for them in the past 6 months:

1^st Month Anniversary: “World’s Best Couple.”

2^nd Month Anniversary: “Life is like a Piano and in order to play a sweet melody you have to         be with each other, Shivam and Riddhi have played each “stroke” with Care, Love and  Respect for each other ,Best part is……. the rhyming is still going on and world is listening to  it like forever”.

3^rd Month Anniversary: Abhishek Dubey = The Perfect Guy,

                                          Riddhi Mishra = The Perfect Girl,

                                         And

                                        Abhishek + Riddhi =World’s Best Couple.

4^th Month Anniversary: Falling in love doesn't happen just once, but every year, month, week, day, hour, minute and second of your life. With Shivam and Riddhi.... it goes on like forever.... Everytime I see them..... It means more than a SunShine for me....... And wid their Beautiful rays of LOVE....they brighten every corner of one's heart.....  

5^th Month Anniversary: Two Lives, Two Hearts, joined together in Friendship,United Forever in Love……

And

6^th Month Anniversary: Happiness keeps them Sweet, Love keeps them strong,Care keeps them together, Faith keeps them Loyal,

Loyalty keeps them Faithful, and Respect keeps them Loving.

Congratulations Guys on Completing 6 months J

J God Bless You. J

Cheers J

Note: I have mentioned Shivam and Riddhi as ‘World’s Best Couple’ very often in this post , please it’s my request to every other couple reading this post, that every couple is special in their own way, and it’s my personal observation about calling them ‘The Best’. Thanks.

@Sandy............

Wrong Number....

It was the day of my son's XII results and I was so tensed. I sat beside him while he logged on the website with his registration no.
"Ma", he screamed in excitement,
 
"I scored 1191, with centum in 4 subjects."I can't believe it. "I kind of became numb in my excitement...
 
My eyes became wet. I kissed him on his forehead and smiled." Soon we realized that he stood first in the state. Oh, my joy knew no bounds when Reporters and media persons soon swamped my house for interviews and photos. I was so honored to join him in the snaps.

I wanted to call my "wrong-number-friend" to tell him the news...... I was so excited. He was someone whom I have known for more than 20 years. I still do not remember when we became friends, but certainly cannot forget the first day he called me When I blasted him for giving me so many wrong calls..... After that he had called up a week later asking apology, for he had now got the right no of his friend whom he wanted to talk to .We spoke for an hour that day...even without knowing each other's names.

Though he kept pestering me to reveal my name I never did and so he kept a name...Sweety. I used to get so shy whenever he called me 'Sweety'. I was doing first year of BSc. Maths then, and he was a Computer Engineering student. From then he used to call me very often. We almost discussed everything .

By the final year of my college, we probably we were in love, but I had been cautious. I was in a dilemma
whether to tell him. But what if he was of a different religion? Do I have the courage to talk to my parents
about it? ........all these questions ran through my mind.
 
I decided I'll not talk to him thereafter. When he called next time I lied to him I that I was going to
Delhi for my post graduation. He gave me his office number and asked me to ring him up once I reach there.

I never called ....... A couple of months later my marriage got fixed with a guy of my parent's choice. I was not happy but I did not complain; rather accepted it as an obedient daughter. At times I felt I missed my wrong- number- friend.......

My hubby was a moody person; I have hardly spent any good time with him- but he was genuine indeed and
never bothered my personal space. After 2 years we had a boy...Yet, I was not very happy with my married
life...One day I happened to browse through my diary and found I still had my old friend's office phone no
that he had given me. I dialed it and spoke with him. He said he was married and got a kid too. I was happy
for him though in the bottom of the heart I felt bad that I could not marry him.

From then I used to occasionally call him on that number. I never gave him mine as I felt that would put
me in trouble... And till today I almost shared everything with him including my relationship with my
hubby.....today I was so happy and I wanted to call him.

Just then I got a call. "Your husband met with an accident and died on the spot"
I banged the phone down. I broke. I did not call my friend.....I somehow started feeling guilty. I have
never tried to talk to him properly when he was alive or moved close with him.... I felt I had been a bad wife........

A couple of years passed and one day my son brought home a Bengali girl and said they wanted to get married.

I got them married as I did not want my son to go through what I did. I decided to give my son his father's room and started clearing it. There was a phone book. I gently opened it to find,

"Wrong no Sweety - 26579785" !!!!!

Destiny always puts the right numbers together. It's us who interpret it wrong!!!!!


@Sandy......

Now and Then....

I still miss those days ..
that, hours of chatting ..
fighting over little things.
late night and early morning talks through phone ..
weird dreams . “being possessive” attitudes ..
waiting for your texts..
watching your pics and texts over and over...
smiling for no reason..
trusting you blindly..
your hugs and kisses ..
your innocent wishes ..
your fake hopes..


and, now just having..
blank inbox ..
no more “I love u” .
hours of loneliness..
late night cries..
heartbreaking..
shattered dreams,.
deleted memories..
broken trust..
free from hurt feeling..
and No More You...!!


@Sandy....

My Novel…..

Note: For my new readers, Please go through the post titled ‘I Will Always Rememberrrrr….’ To know more about it. Thanks.

On the verge of completing the love story part of my Novel. While writing it I came to know how hard it is to pen down your own Love Story that too when it couldn’t complete in real Life. Trust me each chapter is full of emotions and every word is written direct from the bottom of my heart. From past few days or rather few months I have been thinking a lot about my Novel, only one question in my mind, have I done justice to every chapter written in it or would anybody be able to understand my story? Well let’s see.

The biggest challenge was to write the last few chapters i.e. ‘Present Day’ and ‘The Day we broke Up’, every word written in these chapters is made of my tear which came rolling down my eyes while thinking and writing it.

Once I complete the Love story part, I guess it would take only couple of weeks to finish rest of it e.g. College Life, fun, thrills etc.

Then I guess real fight would start, I mean to get it published, I have got few offers from local publishers but I want it to showcase on National level, so that every avid Novel reader reads it and knows that it might be very easy to break someone’s heart but it’s really difficult to cope up with that pain and might be few would understand and think a lot before breaking-up. 

Let’s see. 

Sweetest Part in Life is to Carry All the Memories in Life BUT Toughest Part is to Stay Without the Person Who is Behind Those Memories..

@Sandy…..

Gone with the wind....

Writing almost about a month,
A Phone call from my friend made me to take sometime out and write.


Two days back i came to know that sweets got married with someone.
Our mutual friend called me and after enquiring about sweets from her,
i got to know this.
I don't know why but coudn't speak a single word for few seconds,
didn't know how to react.
She consoled me for few minutes saying "It's Ok Sandeep, what can we Do. Please stop thinking about her,
You are only hurting urself."


Thinking: (if it was easy for me to forget her, i would have done it four years back only)


This time a different feeling grew inside my heart.
Few days or rather i shud say weeks back she used to sms/call me, but suddenly this decision,
i coudn't understand it.
i felt something different, what m still unable to decide is
whether i shud be Happy for her or sad about me not being with her ?
Matter of fact is that NOW she is gone Forever (only i know how difficult was to write this word).


It's been almost four years now, i don't understand why the hell did i love her so much
that even after such a long time at times i do remember her.


My friends say that Sandeep she doesn't deserve you but my question is
Why 'Me'?
I never hurted anyone, always try to help others, i care for every person,
respect elders, love my friends, don't get angry, try to make others smile,
keep myself in a very calm way.
Guys flirt with girls, sleep with them and then forget,
i never did any thing like that, i juz tried to be honest and faithful in my side of Love,
but what did i get in return...... Hurt, Pain, Betrayal.
Is this fair ?


@Sandy..................