Marriage.......

Finally the winters are here! Hot tea, peanuts, blankets, bonfire, hands searching for warmth, are the things we can see through our binoculars.

Other than this, November brings along the spiritual spirit with a number of religious festivities like Chatt Pooja, Ganga Mahotsav, Eid and Guru Nanak Jayanti being celebrated this month. These festivals are commemorated across the country with great enthusiasm and positivity.

But, in practicality to lead a happy life, we need to develop healthy bonds with people around us and sustain a positive atmosphere. And in case of marriage, bond with your soul mate is what matters the most, which is the perfect source of happiness in your daily life.

So in this month of marriage and festival let me tell you what I feel about “Marriage…”

Marriage is known to be a timeless and the most sacred knot, we tie in our lifetime. It is said to be a new life altogether, where we meet new people, understand their behaviour and adjust ourselves accordingly. There are difficulties at every stage in our life and so this very important phase also brings along some hitches and inhibitions, which if resolved can kick start your fairytale of a perfect marriage journey. 

Few major points :

1. Soul union: Marriage along with being the holiest bond on earth is also the most intimate relation a man and woman shares in their lifetime. Moments spent in intimacy with the life partner, should be spent to reach his soul and know them better at each step. Though, most of our thoughts get scattered, but we should try and feel what our spouse is feeling and form a connection with their soul.                                                      




2. Spend time together: Devoting special moments to your life partner, would surely help you to know them better and take a glance into their inner soul. There are times which you want to spend only with someone special. So, you should make sure that when your spouse needs someone special, you are always there for them.                                                                                                       



3. Accept them as they are: Giving your life partner the space to be themselves is very important, which allows you both to act in your natural ways. Though, adoption of different faces and behaviour in a relation is important at times, but the best thing is to be yourself and let your spouse accept the real you.          


Thus, maintaining a proper flow of communication between you both, you can develop a bond with their soul, which would last till eternity.

@Sandy......................