Mumbai.....

yeah...I was in Mumbai for 2 days last weekend :) :) :) :) 
I was with my favorite and best frnds Abhishek Dubey and Riddhi Mishra (both are getting married on 28th Jan 2012), also we were accompanied by Abhishek's younger brother,Sujay Pandey and elder brother's wife,Namrata Bhabhi.In mumbai Riddhi's friend Richa joined us for two days. 
We left for mumbai on friday night, reached there around 11.30 pm after dinner and dropping Riddhi & Bhabhi at Richa's place we left for Ankit's house as we planned to stay there only.Unfortunately we coudnt meet Ankit reason being he was stuck with some work in office.
The main motto of our trip was Shopping and only Shopping for the most awaited Abhishek and Riddhi's wedding.


26/11/11,Saturday :
We started on Saturday a bit late around 12.00 noon. First we went to Mallad West for shopping,after spending there almost half a day and running from 1 shop to another we decided to have some snacks and leave for Santa Cruz.....yeah yeah again for shopping.....
No its not like the shops or the products were not good,Riddhi and everyone liked few dresses but when it comes to wedding everybody wants THE BEST.....Right.......
We reached Santa Cruz around 4.30 pm and first we went to "Seasons", its huge shop for ladies wedding outfit. After spending there(i mean only in the Shop) for around 2 hours we went to another "Friendship",finally after 9 hours of search and trying almost 10-12 dresses Riddhi and everyone liked a Bride's dress which was the best of all Riddhi tried since morning.I took a deep breath as in Riddhi's hunt for Bridal dress is over.... hehe :)
After that we went to (only Abhishek,Sujay and Me)...... Na Na Na Na......let it be.....hehe.....
Reached home at 2.00 am......went straight away to bed.....and then in my dreams..... :) :)


27/11/11,Sunday :
We left Ankit's place with bag and baggage at 11.30 am for Santa Cruz. After few mins (few mins  = 30 mins), Sujay and me realised that we are heading in the opposite direction of Santa Cruz. Thanks to Abhishek, while hiring Auto he told him "Mallad" as our destination, no worries Auto took a U-Turn and finally we reached Santa Cruz. Riddhi, Richa and Bhabhi also joined us. After having Sandwich (it was damm tasty),we again started on our mission i.e. Shoppingggggggggg :).
Thereafter we decided to go Bandra, this time for Abhishek,reached there at 2.30 pm, straightaway went to "Amar Sons" shop for BrideGroom's wedding dress. Abhishek tried 2-3 out of which we liked one very much but as I said earlier....It's wedding time and everyone wants to be THE BEST.....esp the Bride and BrideGroom, obviously its their day, they should.
So, we left for Dadar searching for a shop named "Manyavar" but by the time we reached there,realised that its already too late and wont be possible for us as our bus departure time was 5.30 pm and it was already 4.00 pm. So we decided to have some snacks and leave for Pune.
We went to a restaurant named "Udupi" in Dadar only.
At 5.00 pm we left the restaurant for our bus stop and Richa left for her place.
Bus left mumbai at 5.30 pm for Pune. I didnt want to return this time.aaahhhhh but Office-Office !!!!


I didn't buy anything but was enjoying watching them shop and how Riddhi tried every dress and then asked for one's opinion.......
seriously had fun, enjoyed a lot there.... 


For my friends :::::


Abhishek Dubey -- as usual he was sweet and again "Bullying (only Me)". I guess he has developed this as a Hobby about bullying me...hehe....when m around he coudnt control himself.....no no I don't mind at all reason being.....He is "Abhishek".....My Best friend and the BEST guy have ever come across in this Journey called Life.....I can go on and on writing about A.D.(thats wat people call him) but lemme stop here only.....


Riddhi Mishra -- Abhishek's GF ....no no....Sorry....Now Fiance :)..... and soon to be WIFE .... I know this gal since 2005. She is very sweet and a nice gal........My very good friend..... A friend for whom I care and respect a lot. 


Sujay Pandey -- Abhishek's younger brother. I know this fellow from past 4 years. But there isn't much to say about him as we have hardly spoken with each other, no that doesnt mean he is not a gud guy but I don't know him as in person. Sorry for now Sujay.


Namrata Bhabhi -- Abhishek's elder brother Akshay Bhaiya's wife. I have met only twice with her. Just that it was nice of her to accompany us for the weekend.


Richa Jhamb -- Richa is Riddhi's one of good friends.She was my junior in College.I don't know her much as in person. But this time I felt that she is a nice gal reason being, u know who cares these days to leave all their work and go shopping that too for friend's wedding in this hot weather. Give me a single example when have u seen one doing so much for a friend. That was really nice of her.




The only worst part was hot and humid climate ,also forgot to click pictures for future memories......


@Sandy........

Welcome To The Corporate World......

Vivek, 25, is a Fresher(deployed as Assistant Software Engineer) in an IT services company. He strongly believes in doing his work, and prefers that his work should speak for itself and bring him the recognition it deserves. 

For him, even working “offline”, developing a professional relationship with team members, managers and team leaders is in a way 'untrue' and not in the right spirit.

Vivek, 28, is still an Assistant Software Engineer in the same IT services company. He still strongly believes in doing his work, and prefers that his work should speak for itself and bring him the recognition it deserves. 

What happened next……He recently approached a human resource (HR) consultant asking had he created a professional relationship, would his career have moved forward considerably. 

This happens quite often to the unsung employees of the corporate world, who prefer to remain silent and work quietly in the background. Is there a reason or need for them to create their professional relationships?

First let me make myself clear by professional relationship I do not mean that one should go have drinks, dinner, offer bribes, etc. But I mean one should be visible at workplace, people should know that there is this guy/gal working with us in the same team or company.

According to me, in the corporate world, without visibility to the work you are doing, or allowing the right stakeholders to see the value you bring to the role or the organisation, it may curtail your chances of getting the opportunities you are capable of and deserve.

What I feel is that it's a good thing to have the organisation understand your strengths and how you can contribute effectively in the long run but this has to be complimented with actual capability and calibre. You need to show what u do, I mean your work. Just coming office on time, sitting at your desk with lots of work load and at End Of Day leaving the office won’t do these days. A company with thousands of employees won’t be able to dream to just pick you up and compliment.

Interaction is the biggest part we lack today. We should know the value of this word. The more we interact the more we are able to know our team-members, organisation. These days it a very tough competition to get acknowledged for the work you’re really doing

In an organisation it often happens that we do work for our team-mates offline, but let the managers and team-leaders be aware of whatever you’re doing so, as and when time comes you are credited for your work

As one builds a personal career, it needs to also get supported by what you actually are capable of, and can bring to the organisation but this would be only possible if your senior team members know you personally and professionally.

I would suggest, do not hesitate to express the most rationale viewpoint, as opposed to not being seen to have an opinion. Build relationships across the organisation that go beyond your immediate stakeholders. Have informal conversations with seniors to gain their insights on work-related matters. Work on developing communication skills and a positive mind set.

Be the change agent or part of the team that spearheads new initiatives. This will require ability to take on challenging assignments. Push the boundaries and challenge the status quo. A lot can be achieved by questioning 'it-happens-like this-only' syndrome.

Poster boys and girls who are good in everything are hard to find. It is usually people who have great networking skills, articulate communicators, who do not hesitate to voice their opinions are the ones who are 'visible' in organisations, and thus are able to build their personal career.

@Sandy…….

A Beautiful Song......

I don't know how many of u have heard this song.....but it's really a nice song with Superb Lyrics......whenever I listen to this song....it soothes my heart.....


Lyrics :::::

Ho love of mine..with a song and a whine..You’re harsh and divine..

like truths and a lie..

but the tale end is not here..I’ve nothing to fear..

for my love is yell of giving and hold on…in the bright emptiness..

in a room full of it..

is the cruel mistress ho ho o…

I feel the sunrise..

that nest all hollowness..

for i have the way to go.. not come…

And i feel so lonely yea..

There’s a better place from this emptiness..

And i’m so lonely yea..

There’s a better please from this emptiness.. yei yei yei ya….

Aa.. aa.. aa…..

Tune mere jaana..Kabhi nahi jana..

Ishq mera dard mera.. haaye…

Tune mere jaana..Kabhi nahi jana..

Ishq mera dard mera …

Aashiq teraaa..

Bheed mein khoya rehta hai..

Jaane jahaan a..Puchho toh itna kehta hai..

And i feel so lonely yea..

There’s a better place from  this emptiness..

And i’m so lonely yea..

There’s a better please from this emptiness.. yei yei yei ya….

I don't know...may be u should listen to it first....m sure u guys will Love it.....

@Sandy..................

Marriage.......

Finally the winters are here! Hot tea, peanuts, blankets, bonfire, hands searching for warmth, are the things we can see through our binoculars.

Other than this, November brings along the spiritual spirit with a number of religious festivities like Chatt Pooja, Ganga Mahotsav, Eid and Guru Nanak Jayanti being celebrated this month. These festivals are commemorated across the country with great enthusiasm and positivity.

But, in practicality to lead a happy life, we need to develop healthy bonds with people around us and sustain a positive atmosphere. And in case of marriage, bond with your soul mate is what matters the most, which is the perfect source of happiness in your daily life.

So in this month of marriage and festival let me tell you what I feel about “Marriage…”

Marriage is known to be a timeless and the most sacred knot, we tie in our lifetime. It is said to be a new life altogether, where we meet new people, understand their behaviour and adjust ourselves accordingly. There are difficulties at every stage in our life and so this very important phase also brings along some hitches and inhibitions, which if resolved can kick start your fairytale of a perfect marriage journey. 

Few major points :

1. Soul union: Marriage along with being the holiest bond on earth is also the most intimate relation a man and woman shares in their lifetime. Moments spent in intimacy with the life partner, should be spent to reach his soul and know them better at each step. Though, most of our thoughts get scattered, but we should try and feel what our spouse is feeling and form a connection with their soul.                                                      




2. Spend time together: Devoting special moments to your life partner, would surely help you to know them better and take a glance into their inner soul. There are times which you want to spend only with someone special. So, you should make sure that when your spouse needs someone special, you are always there for them.                                                                                                       



3. Accept them as they are: Giving your life partner the space to be themselves is very important, which allows you both to act in your natural ways. Though, adoption of different faces and behaviour in a relation is important at times, but the best thing is to be yourself and let your spouse accept the real you.          


Thus, maintaining a proper flow of communication between you both, you can develop a bond with their soul, which would last till eternity.

@Sandy......................

Shaadi.com

yeah Shaadi.com ...... It's a website which deals with Online Matrimony...... 


Today morning when I logged into my yahoo mailbox....I saw a message that A member from shaadi.com has expressed interest in you....... It happened with me many times...I mean the message and interest....But this girl seemed different.....I liked her profile and pic.....according to her profile.....She seemed a nice gal to me......
So I thought of searching her on FaceBook......luckily I got her profile with same profile pic on FB also....so I dropped her a message with a prior permission to talk......
After messaging her I went for a meeting , after I came back and checked my FB profile....saw a message from her with the number.....felt good about it that she also wants to communicate......
Around 1 pm I received a call from the number.....my heart started pumping after looking at my mobile screen.....It was altogether a different feeling(no I wasn't nervous about talking to her but about what to talk).....was busy with my work....but still chose to receive the call.......I attended the call.......after greeting and talking to the other person I realized that m talking to someone elder from the family....so I asked about the caller....then I came to know that it's her mother.....I spoke to her for around 10 mins and she enquired about my family and background....She was nice while talking to me.....after talking to her I felt good about the call and conversation......
Thats All...... lets c if it goes any further.... till then c ya :)


@Sandy.............

Do You Know....

Do You Know the relation between two eyes :

They never see each other

                     But

They Blink together,

They Move together,

They Cry together,

They see things together,

They Sleep together,

They share a very deep bonded relationship,

However, when they see a woman, one will blink and another will not.

Moral : Women can break any kind of relationship. :D :P

@Sandy............

A Kiss To Remember...

A tough looking biker was riding his Harley when he sees a girl about to
jump off a bridge so he stops. "What are you doing?" he asks.

"I'm going to commit a suicide," she says.

While he did not want to appear insensitive, he didn't want to miss an
opportunity he asked "Well, before you jump, why don't you give me a kiss?"
So, she does.

After she's finished, the biker says, "Wow! That was the best kiss I have

ever had. That's a real talent you are wasting. You could be famous. Why
are you committing suicide?"

"My parents don't like me dressing up like a girl......" :D

@Sandy.............

Disclaimer......I read it somewhere....it was a nice article so thought of sharing it with my readers. So if the author finds it an unappropriate move, please let me know, this will be removed with immediate effect :)

Thanks Sh@s

Hi Sh@s,

I just wanted to say Thanks for u visiting my blog and at times commenting also. Its really important to get feedback on what u write and how u do it.
As I always say....Sometimes Little Compliment means so much to me. Thanks a Lot Buddy.

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@Sandy.......

Life is.....

Life is such...

Not everyone understands...
Sometimes very particular...
Other times whatever...
While some people speaks nicely
There will be others who speak nastily
But if we dont take them too seriously
Life would be much more easy

One moment feels that car not big enough
One moment feels that house not spacious enough
One moment feels that dishes are not well cooked
One moment feels that your spouse is not attractive

When gotten big car, one fear it being stolen
When gotten big house, one realise the pain in keeping it clean
When gotten all the good food in the world, one is told that one has high blood pressure
When gotten a beautiful wife, one fear she will leave for someone better

Life is short...
Liken it to a game...
Sometimes you worry all day...
Sometimes you slack all the way...
If you ask me,
What treasure do I have with me..
I will tell you there is nothing...but contentment...that is bliss

@Sandy....................

Here I am.....

There are times when u want to be with sum1 but u can't due 2 many reasons.There r also times when everything around u moves so fast & drags u along ,even though u want to stand still doing absolutely nothing thinking about ur pain ,probably only truth to all dis sorrow in life is that no matter how much people around u say they understand they can't coz ur the only one who knows feelings,the pain,loss,emptiness & unfulfilled wishes which fill ur mind.

I loved you then as I love you now. I love you now as I always will. I wanted you then as I want you now. I want you now as I always will. I wanted you happy then as I do now. I want you happy now as I always will. I had you then, as I don't have you now. I don't have you now, but hope says someday I will....You are always in my mind, I see you in my eyes, Want to tell you, my heart belongs to you. Love You!YOUR'E my drug and I’m addicted!!You can count on the sun to rise, for the stars to come out at night, as long as there's air to breathe, you'll always be loved by me."

No matter how far you r,no matter how long I'm gone,you will always be with me.I will see u always as clear as day,for my love knows no boundaries and never will,coz u see....our hearts are 1 and mine is always home.


If my heart had wings I would fly to you and lie beside you as you dream.....



When I miss you, sometimes I listen to music or look at pictures of you, not to remind me of you but to make me feel as if I'm with you. It makes me forget the distance and capture you.....I know you've been busy, I had things to do too. We haven't talked for some time, I wonder if everything's fine. I had other stuff on my mind, I'm sure you did too, but I just had to tell you this my Love... hey I miss you......I wish that you were here or that I were there, or that we were together anywhere!

Today was just one of those days where everything I did reminded me of you and every song I heard somehow related to you. I hate days like today, because they remind me of the one thing I don’t have...... It’s You…..


@Sandy........................

Story Of Love....

Love has a story

A story of sadness

A story of happiness

A story of solitude

A story of anger

A story of confusion

A story of feeling

A story of…love

Love is confusion

Love is hard

Love is something everyone has

Once they search deep enough inside themselves

But the love between more people is greater

Like a Family, a Love that can never be broken

Not by Words

Not by Action

Love is Like that

Love is just as it is

Love has a story

Love goes on forever

And that is Love’s Story

@Sandy.........

The Unforgettables: Part - I

I'm gonna tell u about the most admirable people have ever came across in my Life. The Title being Unforgettables coz someway around they left deep impact on me as in I learnt few things from them and now they are lost. I don’t know the reason but I guess they are in a state of some hibernation or something like that.

So here we go-----

Sana Iman – Sana, what to say about her, she was my first gal as friend (not girlfriend ofcourse, coz few people r worth being only friends reason being u don’t want to loose them) though there were many but I would like to take her name first because she was different. Hey let me first tell u how we met, right?

                        My father got transferred to Gorakhpur (my birthplace) in the year 1998 and as always there was a search for Good School in the City. I got admission in one of the most reputed ”Little Flower School” in Gorakhpur, Class 9^th.Just like others I was sitting quietly on one of the benches, everybody else was busy chatting, few bullying but me only watching them. Suddenly I felt that someone is staring at me, I looked that side. Saw a beautiful and pretty gal looking with a big question mark on her face, I raised my eyebrows with a smile in order to ask what’s the matter but immediately she turned around, guess was embarrassed about the way she was looking at me. Then teacher came into the class and guess what it was my favourite subject class “History”, I Love this subject. During the class I noticed her continuously looking at me. Couldn’t help smiling on my own, and Alas! Teacher saw me doing that, No No not looking at her but smiling. Suddenly he cried out my name “Sandeep Kumar Singh”, firstly I wasn’t able to respond reason “lost” in my own thoughts, then my colleague poked me ,I acted as if just got up from the bed and stammered “Ye…Ye…Yesss…..Yes Sir” and don’t know what happened to me started walking towards my teacher, collided with my desk and my all books fell down, Sir asked “Why , are you coming towards me ?”, I replied “ I don’t know sir, I just started to walk after hearing my name” and after listening to me the class started laughing including. I was wondering this happened coz of her only just look at her she was also laughing like an innocent baby.

Sir:” Mr Singh I guess you are not in your senses”,

 Me: “No Sir”

Sir: “What, What did u just say? “

Me: “I mean sir am in my senses but I was bit frightened after hearing my name and this is the result of that only.”

Sir: “What was the reason of u smiling, do I look funny or the topic of Adolf Hitler is funny?”

(Thinking: O hell, from where did this Hitler came from and why, why do these people not just only become part of History without bothering anyone. Why r we even studying about him, whose interested in him. Look at this fellow (my teacher) dressed up like a cartoon as if he is going in some Independence Day fight.)

Sir:” Didn’t u hear me Mr Singh?”

(Thinking: O Man, stop crying my name out. Your voice is piercing my ears)

Me:” Sorry Sir. (This is all we can say at that situation)”

Sir: “I am not accepting your sorry Mr Singh, you may please leave the class, Thank You”.

(Thinking: Oh No not on the first day of my class, I looked at her with angry eyes. She gave me a silent smile. I was surprised, gave her a daring look and lowered my eyes. I guess this would help sir to persuade of not throwing me out of class.)

Me: “Sorry sir, It won’t happen again, I promise.”

Sir : “ No Mr Singh either u leave the class or I will leave and will make sure that there wont be any History classes for your class.”

(Thinking: aahhh Man, what is wrong with this fellow, why is he behaving like a jerk. Looked at my class fellow hoping for mercy but got no result. They all wanted me to leave.)

(Thinking: Alright, Alright Guys m leaving, don’t worry Nobody will miss HISTORY classes’ coz of me.)

                      I left the class and waited outside so that once the class is over I could talk with her. After waiting for about 30 minutes the class got over and I saw her coming out of the class with her friends. I don’t know what came to my mind, didn’t go to her and walked in the opposite direction.Suddenly, I heard someone shouting “Excuse Me” ,as I turned around, saw the same girl(Thinking : Oh No ,reason for “No” is that her smile only made me cost “History” class what if we talk).

She came near to me,

Her: “Hi!”

Me: “HI! (No smile, nothing)”

Her: “Are you mad at me?”

Me: ”Naah   ! Why would I or rather why should I, I felt very good after being thrown out of class. (Didn’t raise my voice, said it in a very sarcastic way.)”

Her:”hehe….u are funny.”

Me:”Yeah , m glad that your smile costed me my very first class of School (I was not trying to be funny but her expressions made me do so)”

Her:”Listen m sorry for it.”

Me:”I will accept your apology only on one condition,Tell me why were u smiling and what made u do the same ?”

Her:”Nothing, Leave it ! hehe ! “

Me:”aahhh,very funny.But still there should be a reason ?”

Her:”Because of this (took her handkerchief and wiped out a black colour mark from my face).”

Me:”oops,from where did this come ?”

Her:”hehe,how would I know ?”

Me:”Thanks,but you could have told me earlier.”

Her:”yeah,sorry but how can you expect me to talk with a stranger as soon as he enters the class ?”

Me:”hmmmm,alrite then catch u later,bye.”

Her:”Bye.”

Me:”Wait,atleast tell me your name.”

Her:”Why ?”

Me:”what why,alrite don’t tell,Bye.”

Her:”Hey wait,why getting angry,I am Sana.”

Me:”nopes m not,thanks(started walking away from her.)”

Sana:”hey wait,tell me your name also.”

Me:”Sandeep,Sandeep Singh,is my name(said in a James Bond style)”

Sana:”(burst out in laughter)”

Sandeep:”(Puzzled)What happened ? see u again laughing on me , m not gonna talk with u again “

Sana:”(trying to control her laughter)u said it in such a way as if ur James Bond or what, Sandeep, Sandeep Singh(imitates me).”

Sandeep:”see ,you again making fun of me(was enjoying the talk,not at all angry).”

Sana:”Ok,Ok, I won’t”

Sandeep:” alrite, then c ya.”

Sana:”Bye.”

(as I turned around she again Imitated me, Sandeep, Sandeep Singh and started laughing)

(I couldn’t stop smiling, and just went away looking for my friends)

So, this was my first encounter with Sana. Muslim by Caste, Sweet by Nature, and Friends by Chance.

                             After that my friendship with her grew stronger day by day. Please mind that it was none other than a simple friendship. But it meant a lot to me. There wasn’t a single day when we didn’t talk, we used to like anything & almost everything.

                              The main reason for our growing friendship was that I used to make her laugh (that I still do with my frnds) and she used to enjoy it a lot, used to laugh open heartedly, but in a Silent Mode (even if u get close to her, it was impossible to hear her laughing) Sometimes she has to say forcefully that to stop me else she would go crazy. Also she got this habit of “Care”, used to care for everyone be it family, friends, animals etc. Even with strangers she was humble and kind. I saw her once giving beggar a 10 Rupee note, couldn’t stop smiling at her.

                                 She told me that her friends call her “Silent Killer”, though didn’t get a chance to ask her the reason. Sana is one of the person I will always envy. She was beautiful, intelligent, bold, Sweet, Down to earth (it was her biggest quality that brought me close to her),etc. etc. etc. I just cannot finish praising her.

                               Sana and I were in same school upto 10^th class and after that we both went to different schools but were in touch through phone calls (as mobile phones were very rare those days).We used to talk a lot on phone, but to be honest she just used to laugh and me talking only J J. At times my mother used to shout at me about me creating funny faces as if m talking to someone sitting infront of me.

                                Sana Iman, I just won’t be able to forget her. All these years have searched a lot for her but my every effort went in vain. Once I came to knew through my friend that he saw her in Lucknow Railway Station but he wasn’t able to speak to her. She filled my slambook and when I read still, memories of her comes alive and I still smile remembering her.

                                  I don’t know why she chose not to be in touch with a single person from school. I sent friend request with messages to every girl with the same Name on Facebook but still no result.

I miss her badly. She was my first very very very………Good friend.

                                 I wish wherever she is, may get all the happiness in Life. My best wishes are always with her.

Only for You Sana: 

                         It's not the presence of someone that brings meaning to Life. But the way someone touches your HEART gives Life.

Still to Come about ------------------------

Late Shivendra Pratap Mall – School friend (I say Late coz dis guy(dearest friend) died in an accident ,rest would tell u in story)

Ruchi Srivastava – My another School friend.

Late Ankit Sindhwani – (Late coz he also died in an accident this year only)

Avantika Gupta – An Online friend

@Sandy..................................