Shut Up & Kiss Me......

This one is from my college days...juz randomly came to my mind...those days Sweets(still I don't take her name publicly) was with me.....

Plot: Sweets put a ban on me that I won't talk to any gal except my sisters after 10:00 pm. And as usual I agreed to it, since it was my habit to fulfill her every wish.

Our relationship was only 4 months old and after putting this ban she was as usual quite Happy, hehe, (aahhh i loved to do anything juz to bring a smile on her face).

Date: 14/02/2007 (Valentines Day) 

We had an awesome day together, I bunked my college and she came to meet me, we went for lunch nd then preffered staying at my flat whole day.
I loved watching her talking to me, at times she used to pinch me 'dun luk at me like that', hehe, but coudn't help. She used to blush a lot after finding out that m still luking at her with lots of luv filled in my eyes. She left my flat at 6:00 pm for her home. I went to my friends place.

Around 9:45 my mobile started ringing displaying "Calling Anamika", I looked at watch nd was relaxed to see hv still got 15 mins to go (do u see the terror of her, hehe)

I don't know how but I surpassed the border of 10:00 pm, and my call wait showed me "Calling sweets", i immediately disconnected Anamika call and received Sweets.
Everything was normal until I myself accepted the crime (she used to call it, as if hv commited a murder) by telling her the time and name of person I was talking to.

Now you can expect the result, I felt as if an Atom Bomb has been dropped on my head and even after saying sorry for more than 100 times over phone, she disconnected  the call saying "I don't wanna talk to you again". (will cut this story short, wait for my novel).....

It's been two days since she was angry with me, i said sorry to her numerous times through sms/call/orkut...but she was still angry.....

Every time I called her, she only said few things, "Don't talk to me","You don't luv me","You are a lier","Do watever you want,I won't say anything to you", nd blah blah blah blah......

Finally, I convinced her to meet me but that also on her condition "Sandeep, we won't meet again in future,this is the last time" (and this last time, lasted for two more years until she really left me to burn in agony and pain.). I agreed coz I knew if she comes down to meet me, her anger wud disappear.

She came down to my flat, as soon as she came inside my room, I hugged her and said sorry holding her face in my palms. After pampering and saying sorry to her I was able to melt her down,
I was saying "sorry baba, sorry na, i won't repeat it again"

She juz said : "Shut-up and Kiss Me"......After that We kissed.... nd she pinched me whispering in my ears "I Love You a lot, baby, don't ever leave me"....

Now I know: The Best kind of Kiss is when u've to stop coz u can't help but Smile.

But today I wonder........ Did she really mean those words ???? m still trying to figure out the answer.

@Sandy................

A Rendezvous with me....Part 1(Introduction)

Hello everyone, in this part of my series I would discuss different phases of my Life,including my personal life,career,family,friends and the only love of my life (X-GF).

Well generally this word "Rendezvous" is associated with two people one being 'Host' and the other as 'Guest' but not on my blog. First let me tell you the meaning of this word, "Rendezvous" means "A meeting at a prearranged time and place" (dis is wat google says). There won't be any 'Simi Garewal' to host this series as you might have seen on 'Star World' TV series.
Now a question, How many of you have spent time alone, i don't mean for few minutes or hours, what I mean is most of your time as in for Days, weeks, years. (I want my every reader to answer this question in the comment section of dis post).

If you have spent some time lonely with no one around, then I guess you might be able to figure out what m I going to discuss in further post. Any Idea Sir g ?????

Alright, to start with, let me tell you that I have been away from Home for around 9 years, doesn't mean my family abandoned me, its just for the sake of my studies nd now it's Job. aaahhhhh 9 longgggg years, sounds  pretty difficult but not to me anymore, I'm now kinda in a habit of living like this.

You know, I have struggled a lot in my Life staying away from home, at times I used to return my home during night either coz of studies(college life) or job(present), there was no one to talk with,no one to give me food served hot in a dish, leave the food at times even after returning home I have to clean my dishes as well before dinner or sometimes if it was too late I used to sleep after having biscuits only. 

I do have friends (a lot), love my family and socialize a lot, but this part is not about them it's all about the time I have spent alone sitting in my room, just watching movies or thinking or writing or simply lying down on my bed with my eyes closed.

So, I hope you getting my point now, those were the times when I really explored myself a lot, I came to know what actually I want, how to get it,where to find it nd blah blah blah. Those days made me a strong guy, with lots of maturity inside me. Life taught me great and important lessons,now be it any situation I don't loose my patience, keep myself calm and have a strong faith in my destiny.There were times in my life when there was no one to advice me regarding the situation, ofcourse friends/family played their part but still in real time I had to deal with it.

I now believe 'Everything Happens for a reason',though still trying to figure out what that reason was/is, and yeah m living with every change my Life brought in front of me, at times it was surprising other times shocking.No matter what might be the situation, I have learned to smile, nd don't feel the mental stress at all, trust me,smiling does work.

So, welcome to "Rendezvous with Me...." hope u'll like it.....this was just an introduction.... c ya soon with next part....

till then.... 

Keep Smiling....

@Sandy..............

Love v/s Sex

Bless your beautiful hide

Wherever you may be

We haven’t met yet

But I’m willing to bet

That you’re the one for me!

And so goes the song from the Hollywood classic of yesteryears, ‘Seven Brides for Seven Brothers’ and this song is precisely what Love is.

We all know that man is a social being. However man is also a lonely being. (And when I say man, I mean women too). Man longs for company.

Company not just from friends and the family, but from that special person with whom he or she can share those sweet nothings, those simple pleasures and pains, someone with whom he or she can build a whole new life, someone with whom he or she can raise a family of his or her own.

Now this is a fundamental need of man: to find a life mate. And the most popular method used for this is to be in Love. When we talk about Love in the very finest sense of the word, please understand that it should not be viewed as a precursor for sleeping together. It is much more than that. It is the first step towards choosing a life partner.

Let’s face it, of course sex is important, but sex is by far not the most important reason for being in Love.

Maybe during the age of thoughtless youth, when new hormones are being pumped in and out, sex is on every one’s mind. But as one matures (mind you that does not mean growing old and gray ) sex takes the back seat and mutual support, likes and dislikes, cooperation, caring and sharing come to the  forefront. We start thinking about building up a world of our own and we need someone to share it with, and not just someone to sleep with.

Nobody, not one of us, is complete without a partner; our aim should be not finding the right sex partner, but finding the right life partner.

Now what you do and what you want is entirely your business. I don’t want to sound nosey but I would like to draw a fine line between Love and Sex.

Just try to think and differentiate between the two, you will get to know that Love is the most beautiful feeling present on this lovely planet earth, people who are in Love would understand my article but people looking for lust instead won’t understand it.

@Sandy...............

Friends First.....

Today, while enjoying Tea outside my office with FRIENDS, we all were laughing like anything even on stupid silly talks, that moment an idea sparked up in my mind “How would have Life been without FRIENDS?”

There is only one answer to this question: “Without FRIENDS: Life SUCKS”.

Try to look at this post not as a prospective but as an effort to understand the value of friends and a beautiful relation that evolves from the word itself i.e. Friendship.

We often come across a lot of people in our life but only few leave a mark on our heart that even if we r not with them, even a thought of the moment spent with them brings a smile on our face.

You might be having a lot of friends, but here I mean good friends.

Wow, now Sandy is talking about ‘Good Friends’, question is ‘how to decide who is worthy of being ‘Good Friend’?’

Friends that you can laugh aloud with, friends who make you laugh. Not everyone can make us laugh, and when I say laugh, I am not referring to some comedian. We are talking about friends here.

It really does pay to have a lot of friends. It makes one’s life richer. The best thing about friends is that you can be yourself with them. And they too can be themselves with you. And that means letting it all out.

It should be someone you can share your dreams and fears with, someone who understands, someone who can give your hand a gentle squeeze when things go wrong and someone who can brighten up your darkest day. 

F. R. I. E. N. D. S.  --- my favryt word in entire English dictionary.

This is just a small post dedicated to all my friends (be it real or net), m glad that I met you in this beautiful journey called Life.

Thank You for being there. :) :)

Keep Smiling…. Bless You… Tc….

@Sandy………..