In Pictures : Sandeep Singh's Travel Diaries

Love, not words win arguments

"A Heart Touching Story"...

A Wife:
My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, 'n I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship 'n now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it.

The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restles...sness. I am a sentimental woman 'n extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship 'n my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, 'n the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? 'n finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, 'n I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer 'n convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, 'n we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, 'n saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, 'n you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, 'n I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes 'n stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, 'n that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,'n help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine 'n the beautiful sand… 'n tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, 'n die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, 'n blurred the ink of his handwriting… 'n as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread 'n fresh milk…

I rush to pull open the door, 'n saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle 'n loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, 'n I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, 'n love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, 'n one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace 'n dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small 'n cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull 'n boring form.. . flowers, 'n romantic moments are only used 'n appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… 'n that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments… !

Keep Forwarding This Worth Reading Story,
I Just did !!

@Sandy...........

Jonita Gandhi -- A Classy Voice to die for....

Jonita Gandhi is an aspiring artist from Canada. She has a great singing talent and she has been singing since she was very young. Jonita is a versatile singer and sings particularly Indian and Bollywood music.....etc. etc. etc. This is how every post starts when you try to Google something about her.

But I wanted to say few words about my favorite singer in my own way. So here I go...

Few months back while going though you tube, I came across a video titled "Yeh Hosla(Candle Light cover)" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HReN67juhCg "
I randomly clicked to play that up and started doing some work, but as soon as her voice hit my eardrums,
I almost forgot what I was up to & closed my eyes to feel it deeply. A pleasant smile came across my lips thinking "Wow, finally I found someone who's worth listening every second of the track."

I'm feeling so Happy, do u know why ?
because I'm so lucky, do u know how ?
because God gave us a Gift, a magician, oops I mean musician/singer in form of Jonita Gandhi.

A special voice, that soothes my heart. It lightens up my mood be it morning 6 AM or 12 Midnight, that's the magic this gal holds in her voice.Ever since I started listening to her, tracks sung by her keeps re-playing in my music systems wherever I'm, whatever I do.

Jonita is not only beautiful but also an owner of a magical voice,that can make million hearts sing along.

Listen to her guys, u'll feel privileged. Her voice is like finding Peace,in the chaos, of your mind.
Because of your voice Jonita, you make life more beautiful.What sunshine is to flowers,your voice is to your fan.

Jonita is beautiful, but not lyk those gals in magazine. Jonita is beautiful, for the way she sings. Jonita is beautiful, for that sparkle in her eye when she sings. Jonita is beautiful, for her ability to make others smile through her angelic voice. Jonita is beautiful, deep down her soul.

Lastly, Jonita Your voice is my latest addiction. Thank You for singing.

I have tried my best to say almost everything about her but she is far better & talented than the words expressed over here. Hope you come up with more superb tracks in future.

P.S. Just a #Respect #Love from a True Fan.

Please Follow her : @jonitamusic

God Bless You Jonita.
Keep Singing & Smiling. Take Care.

@Sandy.......

I’m a #Libra

I am a Libra. I’m realistic. I see things as they really are. I love the truth. I can’t stand a person who dreams about what they want but don’t go out and get it. I love socializing, travelling, reading. If I always want to talk to you or be around you don’t take me for granted as that’s another sign that I like you. If you’re near or dear to my heart, I might want you around a lot more often than most other people. Consider yourself lucky. When I like someone, I mean it. You can consider me as a classy guy; I want relaxed friends, true love and peace. I’m calm and always want to make others happy, even before myself.

As a #Libra, I do smile a lot as a way to protect myself. I don’t like people to see my vulnerable side, and I feel that smiling is a way to show that I’m happy and confident. When it comes to charm, there is no one more appealing than me.

#Libras are naturally flirty in nature, but they DON’T just flirt around with anyone like it doesn’t mean anything. If they’re being obviously flirtatious, it’s because they want you to know they have interest in you. As far as social life is concerned, they tend to hand pick their friends very carefully. And they don’t seek attention; they generally get it without having to seek it. #Libra’s are generally sweet and generous.

#Libra’s are the most romantic signs in the zodiac. They have an idealistic view of love and togetherness. Once these people fall in love, they start thinking of marriage.

#Libra’s are great counselors, because they have the ability to weigh the pros and cons of an idea fairly and without being bias. They love giving parties, and they have talent for making people feel at ease.

My Suggestion: If you want a lifelong friend, choose a #Libra.

Keep Smiling……God Bless You……Tc

@Sandy………

Happy New Year @ 2014

Its a Hap...Happ....Happy.... #NewYear2014 , God Bless , Keep Smiling  

The pages of yesterday cannot be revised,but the pages of tomorrow are blank and you hold the pen. Make it an inspiring story.
2014 is a year we manifest our dreams..we believe..we achieve..we BECOME!!

Dream of a better world and a better tomorrow.Respect all religions, Respect Women, Respect Friends, and above all Respect everyone.....

Keep Smiling.... God Bless You.... Tc...

@Sandy.........

Life == Living !!

Read it somewhere and found it to be worth sharing...........

There comes a time in Life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. Surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the one's who don't. Life is too short to be anything but Happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is Living.

@Sandy................

Improvement.....

Sometime the changes are forced on us, sometime they happen by accident, and we make the most of them. We have to constantly come up with new ways to fix ourselves. So we change, we adapt, we create new version of ourselves. We just need to be sure that this one is an IMPROVEMENT over the last.

@Sandy.....

My New Friend.....

I have got a new friend with me to accompany me when I am alone. I have been waiting for an encounter with it from past many years. I always wanted to meet it but coudnt get time because it was my dream to meet it and I wanted whenever I meet it I have only time for it and nothing else reason being I wanted to give my full attention to it, with full dedication and commitment.

Puzzled.

Its my New , Brand New Givson Guitar.

Yups you got it right, Sandeep Singh on his way to be next Rockstar ;) ;) though not worldwide but among his friends and loved ones.

It was always my dream to learn and play guitar. I guess its the best companion to express your emotions. Lets see where my another new journey takes me.

But one thing is forsure,  this time I'm going to do it. Just learn and sing along the songs of this Beautiful journey called Life.

Wish me Luck. :) :)

@Sandy.....

Mother....

Yeah my new post is about the person we consider most important part of our Life.

Mother..... what exactly comes to your mind after listening to this most beautiful word in english dictionary. My mind says "A Human form of God". I guess this is the best way we can "try" to define, I say "try" because there isnt any perfect definition to this golden word.

Let me tell you a story....
Once upon a time , there were only two human being, on this beautiful planet earth , Adam nd Eve. They used to fight a lot about every thing nd call God for even silly problems. God got literally fed up with there problem. He needed a solution. So after thinking a lot for about weeks he came down to earth and called Adam & Eve. He told them that he is done with listening to their problems and now he has decided something. Both looked cluless. He further said guys I have decided to create one more human being. Someone who will look after you, who will take care of you , listen to ur problems nd give you the perfect solution , someone who will always be there for you , in whose lap you will find heaven on earth . After saying this God created "Her". Her , yes, we call her by different names today , Maa , Mom , Mother , Mummy etc. No matter we call her she's the best. Whenever I look at her, I believe God was right about everything he said to Adam nd Eve. Mom, The Best thing ever happened to mankind.

A post dedicated to every Mother present out there.

With Love,
Sandeep.

If Only....

This is the tittle of one of my favryt hollywood movie and greatest romance onscreen, though there wasnt any happy ending but still... There is a reason I liked it... to find out read below....

There was one simple guys who saw every one around in love but waited for the right gal, saved his love for the one, because he believed in "One woman Man",seems like a typical bollywood movie, isnt it. But its true and that guy is currently writing this post. Trust me.
When she arrived he loved her a lot, lot means like anything and almost everything. She was his life, he loved her above everyone, but after two years a day came when she decided to leave him not because she wasnt faithful but as it goes, her family wont support love marriage. 
And till date this guy feels the pain. She is still in his heart but now only as memories, for the sake of good old times and he never complains about her leaving him but only thinks wherever she is, she should be happy in her Life.

Her memories came back to me because in office today a girl unintentionally asked me about her. The moment she asked me about her , I did tell my friend few shades of my love story but later on while sitting in my chair my love life flashbacked infront of me, tears came rolling down my eyes. It still pains , why ? I don't know.

Thats the reason I generally avoid talking about her to anyone because I know whether the other person understands or not but for me it becomes very difficult to control my emotions.

She is married now. Though she didnt tell me about it even few weeks before getting married because she knew it would hurt me a lot. But I came to know.

What now ? I'm , I'm just enjoying my Life... going with the flow.

But she will always remain somewhere in my heart as a memory.

@Sandy.......